Greatness is Dependence

"TODAY I DON'T FEEL LIKE DOIN ANYTHING" -B.MARS. Wouldn't it be great if the world allows us to do whatever we like whenever we feel like it? Like, I don’t feel like waking up early for work, so I pick up my phone, call the office and say: Me:  “Hey boss, I don’t wanna work today cos I’m feeling lazy”   And you’re boss is like Boss:  “Sure man, just go back when you feel like working again, you have an awesome day ok” Cool right? If you can do whatever you feel like doing and the whole world would be ok with it. WOW.  All students would not go to school if that happens. REALITY BUT it’s not like that. We live in a world where you can’t always do what you feel like doing. We were created with  hearts to feel and minds to think . Reality is, we should balance them both. It’s a world where we have CHOICE and that we don't have to rely on our feelings. Try applying this "do whatever you feel" world in relationships. SC...

Hey guys I had another realization and I just want to share it to all of you. Again I'm just sharing my opinion. We are all different. We have different preferences in life especially with people. You may find that girl living across your street the "DREAM GIRL" material but your brother may disagree and say "Bro, mukha siyang Kokay" If you find a guy "MR. RIGHT" material, your barkada may disagree and say "NO, di kayo bagay" You find that guy perfect for you but your parents may completely disagree, they might say "Di ka kayang buhayin nyan." Well, there are times that your brother, barkada and parents may agree with you but you find out soon that the person you liked/loved didn't turn out to be the BEST for you.   Who's Mr./Ms. RIGHT? WHO DESERVES YOU AT BEST? Here's the answer: I DON'T KNOW. Actually no one really knows and no one can tell. Though if we do think we're with MR/MS. PERFECT ALREADY, we sh...

Relationships are supposed to last forever right? So here's what I realized. I don't really care if you disagree with me, it's just too awesome just wanna share it.  Why enter a relationship with a girl or a boy if you're not willing to keep it forever? I mean, entering into a committment is not real when you're thinking that there's a  possible expiration date  for the both of you. (How I Met Your Mother inspired) Here's what I realized. Old people were right when they tell us to wait for the right person, and the all time favorite "Bata ka pa" line. For me, we should only enter into a commitment when  we both know that we're ready to face life together . It involves a whole lot more when we say we'd better be ready.  The ultimate sign when you know you're ready is when you  believe that you're at your "best" already . Being at "best" means focusing on yourself first -- Loving yourself and motivating...