Greatness is Dependence

"Relationships are PAINFUL, relationships are WONDERFUL.  We all live in the DRAMA that plays out between these two truths" Just take a look at the scenarios I laid out... You might just be able to RELATE...  MONDAY Boy:  Hey baby, I miss you! Girl:  I miss you too! I love you! TUESDAY Girl:  Why weren't you replying? I was waiting for hours! Boy:  I was hanging out with my friends, sorry I didn't notice... Girl:  Damn it! friends friends friends! I don't care! WEDNESDAY Boy:  Good morning gorgeous! I love you! Girl:  Hey baby I love you good morning! Boy:  Have an awesome day love :) THURSDAY Boy:  Who was that guy I saw you with earlier?! Girl:  He's my officemate! Boy:  Looks like he's more than an officemate to you! Girl:  Believe whatever you want to believe! I hate this! ... An hour later... Boy:  Sorry I was overreacting... Girl:  It's okay.. I...

(1) WHY DO PEOPLE GET ADDICTED TO SMOKING? It all starts with one try, "YB" and when we love the feeling, we're convinced that it is a source of SATISFACTION. However, when our level of satisfaction dwindles, we crave for the feeling once again, which causes us to further with the addiction. We tend to depend on it like OXYGEN. Cheers to non smokers! And more cheers to quitters! Why do we seek for things that will give us satisfaction that's merely fleeting, and surely leads to nothingness? What's sad is that even if we know it, WE DO IT. (2) THE SAME CYCLE GOES OUT FOR WEIGHTY THINGS such as drugs, alcohol and sex. These are things that are terribly OVERINDULGENT that once people fall into it, a cycle of search, satisfaction and emptiness is formed. What's more, when an addiction can no longer supply us with the level of satisfaction we yearn for, we move on to our next FLEETING FANCY, not knowing how further damaging it is to us, and to t...

"TODAY I DON'T FEEL LIKE DOIN ANYTHING" -B.MARS. Wouldn't it be great if the world allows us to do whatever we like whenever we feel like it? Like, I don’t feel like waking up early for work, so I pick up my phone, call the office and say: Me:  “Hey boss, I don’t wanna work today cos I’m feeling lazy”   And you’re boss is like Boss:  “Sure man, just go back when you feel like working again, you have an awesome day ok” Cool right? If you can do whatever you feel like doing and the whole world would be ok with it. WOW.  All students would not go to school if that happens. REALITY BUT it’s not like that. We live in a world where you can’t always do what you feel like doing. We were created with  hearts to feel and minds to think . Reality is, we should balance them both. It’s a world where we have CHOICE and that we don't have to rely on our feelings. Try applying this "do whatever you feel" world in relationships. SC...

Hey guys I had another realization and I just want to share it to all of you. Again I'm just sharing my opinion. We are all different. We have different preferences in life especially with people. You may find that girl living across your street the "DREAM GIRL" material but your brother may disagree and say "Bro, mukha siyang Kokay" If you find a guy "MR. RIGHT" material, your barkada may disagree and say "NO, di kayo bagay" You find that guy perfect for you but your parents may completely disagree, they might say "Di ka kayang buhayin nyan." Well, there are times that your brother, barkada and parents may agree with you but you find out soon that the person you liked/loved didn't turn out to be the BEST for you.   Who's Mr./Ms. RIGHT? WHO DESERVES YOU AT BEST? Here's the answer: I DON'T KNOW. Actually no one really knows and no one can tell. Though if we do think we're with MR/MS. PERFECT ALREADY, we sh...

Relationships are supposed to last forever right? So here's what I realized. I don't really care if you disagree with me, it's just too awesome just wanna share it.  Why enter a relationship with a girl or a boy if you're not willing to keep it forever? I mean, entering into a committment is not real when you're thinking that there's a  possible expiration date  for the both of you. (How I Met Your Mother inspired) Here's what I realized. Old people were right when they tell us to wait for the right person, and the all time favorite "Bata ka pa" line. For me, we should only enter into a commitment when  we both know that we're ready to face life together . It involves a whole lot more when we say we'd better be ready.  The ultimate sign when you know you're ready is when you  believe that you're at your "best" already . Being at "best" means focusing on yourself first -- Loving yourself and motivating...